Then there was yesterday. We always have great mornings together...it's my favorite part of the day. We watched a little Curious George and then had some breakfast. After breakfast we headed out to her gymnastics class. The kids play around for a few minutes until the teacher is ready and we have circle time. Lily usually likes this part, but this morning, she did not want to do circle time. She wanted to play. When I told her no, the tears started flowing. The teacher looked over at me and said, "Oh! She does cry!" It's not a usual occurrence. Once her teacher started singing, Lily forgot she was upset and had a great time for the rest of class. After class, we headed over to Target. We needed to get a refill of her prescription and I had to pick up a few other things. Lily's favorite thing to do now is to look at Christmas trees. Anytime we go to any store she wants to look at the Christmas trees. I told her as soon as I was done at the pharmacy, we would go look at the trees. As I was talking to the pharmacist, Lily kept grabbing at my wallet. I looked over and told her no. She kept grabbing it. I took it away from her and told her no again. I told her she needed to apologize to mommy for not obeying or we would not look at the Christmas trees (I know...I am so mean!). Then it happened. Our first temper tantrum in the middle of a store. Why is it that a toddlers screams never seem so loud as when one is in a store full of people? I pushed her around in the cart as she kept screaming. When she is like this, there is nothing anyone can do to calm her down...she just needs to work it out for herself. As I was debating whether or not to leave, I picked her up from the cart and she started calming down. She looked at me and said, "Sorry mommy". She just kills me! Someone had commented on Robert's blog about how we will have our hearts broken and melted many times by this little girl. Boy was she right! Anyway, we of course went over to the Christmas section and looked at every single tree.:o)
Here are a few shots Robert took on our trip.
In her footie jammies and ready for bed.
Running around the resort and having fun!
Lily playing with daddy's new magic trick.
What a beautiful smile.
The cutest butterfly in the Living Desert!
Some great shots by Robert.
We love this place for breakfast. We stop there every year on our way home.
Enjoying a BIG bowl of oatmeal. No, she didn't eat the whole thing.:o)
2 comments:
Love your vacation photos - looks like a beautiful trip. Lily's smile is gorgeous!
Hmmm yes - toddlers and tantrums. What a lovely public combination that can be. Hannah is starting to have them over being put in the car seat - the whole screaming, back arching stage show. I keep expecting someone to think I'm kidnapping her the way she can carry on!
When do they out grow this stage?!
Now, not only are you a REAL mommy, you are a full fledged member of the club. This occurs when you go through the ritual of the toddler tantrum in a crowded store or restaurant (restaurant is worse).
Yes they grow out of it, and to answer Lindsay's question, the less you give in to the tantrums, the sooner they will grow out of it. Toddlers are not known for their reasoning. Their actions are experience based. Give in, they know the tantrum will get them what they want. Calmly stand your ground, they soon understand that all that screaming and crying is not worth the effort, because it gets them nothing.
Good job, Julianne!
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